An excellent video with some really wise insight. Everyone trans or not should watch this video.
“Do you miss dating girls?”
I hate how this comes up and puts stress on my boyfriend and I. All because I had to be truthful and tell him that I’ve been questioning my pansexual identity. And also that I go through periods where I do identify as a lesbian.
Honestly I wish my sexuality was clear cut like some of my friends because I hate this catch-22 situation my mind fixates on. If I do realize and accept being lesbian and leave him would he hate me? What if I mis-step and do it and it turns out I accept being pansexual and it was all for naught? Would it even be worth it? I mean this dating crap is hard enough being a tom-boy transgirl!
Regardless of my own sexual conundrum I don’t want to hurt him.
I’m a masculine transwoman but sometimes I wish I was more feminine because I’m scared of not being taken seriously when I come out.
Please help me raise enough money to afford top surgery!
Every little bit counts. Thank you.